The freshman year of college can be overwhelming. Often students find themselves away from home for the first time in a completely new environment: new city, new friends, a new schedule, new teachers, new living arrangements, new roommates, new everything.
The reality of this adjustment for students makes that first break at Thanksgiving an especially treasured time. Students return home to see their friends and families and get a few precious days of normalcy before returning to their college life.
This dynamic is what made the following text catch my eye. I got it at noon on the Wednesday of Thanksgiving Break.
“Hi Chris. We are on our way there. Expecting 15 girls.”
The text was from the mom of a few of our alumni. She was on her way with her own daughters, who are both in college, to the home of some current Ambrose students. The two college girls were sacrificing two and a half hours on their first day at home on break to invest in and encourage over a dozen of our current students by answering questions and sharing their own experiences.
What is more, this instance isn’t the only example of alumni coming back to invest in our school community over break. We had two of our young men come back to answer ROTC questions, we had an alumni share her passion for YWAM and local refugees with our Upper School students this week, and we have an exordium scheduled with an alumni in February.
In John 13, verses 34 and 35, Jesus instructs us, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.” In the Christian life, it is easy to lose sight of the primacy of loving one another. We can get busy doing so many things – some of them even good things! – that loving people gets lost in the wash. Also, loving people can be much harder than it sounds; loving others involves sacrifice, and giving up things that are important to us, like time with our family, money, etc.
That our alumni – especially those two college girls freshly home on their first break – love our school community enough to sacrifice precious hours while home to invest in it is a rare thing indeed.